Come On You Wands!

Yes, I know that this topic is going to court criticism from the righteously-led sex equalities brigade but, it is an argument that is never, ever now going to go away. It is also a point of view from someone (namely me) who was brought up during the time of the 50 years' ban on women's football in the UK when only men and boys were officially permitted to play the game. I also believe that this article will fully explain the reasoning behind my logic that 'it is still okay to say Man of the Match'. As many of us now know and, if we didn't know before, we keep getting reminded about it here in the 21st century, women's football was officially banned by the Football Association between the years of 1921 and 1971. During that period, only men played the senior game, while boys and girls were not permitted to 'mix' to play the sport in schools. Eventually, but not until 1971, the Football Association released the women's version of the game from its lo...

It happens throughout football. Men's, women's, grassroots and everywhere in the football pyramids. Also in England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, Europe, South America, Asia, wherever football is played. Referees still seem to have this fixation about producing yellow cards when goalkeepers take a goal kick or even outfield players take a free kick and they dawdle about while doing so. But, why do referees still do that? Added time of several minutes on the end of both halves of each match was introduced to the game to take into account players getting injured and attended to on the pitch by the 'sponge men and ladies', substitutions and... to counteract time-wasting . So it does seem to be a double-whammy when the referees not only add on 6, 8 or even 10 minutes at the end of each half to include time-wasting but then penalise the offending players by brandishing a yellow card. Anybody would think that referees are on a 'bonus' by seeing how many times du...

On every listing and every posting page on this site you will now find this icon (pictured left) in the top right corner. But, what does it actually mean? Well, put simply, it is an icon that represents 'sharing' and you can click on it if you wish to share the article on social media (and I hope that you do!). For reasons I have given on the FAQ page, I don't 'do' social media but, I know that a lot of the visitors to this website do. It will only take you a few seconds to click on the icon and, either grab the URL of the article you are reading or, just click on each link in turn and be transported to the login page for Facebook, X, Pinterest or even email your pals. I don't expect every post to be shared but I would like to think that you would kindly share the links to the posts that you have read that interest you the most. This, I believe, is a much quicker way than copying the link in the browser address bar, going to the chosen social media site, logging...

Here's a fictional scenario. You have just moved to a new area and you are a football lover. You are suddenly 'a stranger in these parts' and, after researching how the land lies around your new home, you find that you have three different football clubs to choose from in the immediate vicinity. They are all within easy travelling distance of your new home if you drive to them . Let us assume that your adopted town or village is near somewhere like a fictitious place called Sidcup. Now let us assume that each of the three imaginary clubs that are almost on your doorstep are called Cray Valley Paper Mills, Chislehurst Glebe and Cray Wanderers. Let us further assume that, you do not like the idea of driving your car to football matches because (a) you don't like the idea of the paintwork getting 'door-banged' in the car park and (b) you like a bit of a tipple in the bar after the game, win or lose. You continue with your research and find that (a) the oldest of th...

The Kevin Costner film, Field of Dreams , is probably one of the most unique and iconic works to cover the sport of baseball. It features a story about a farmer in Iowa who cuts down his crop of sweetcorn cobs in order to build a baseball diamond, complete with floodlights - the field of dreams in the title - after he hears a voice whispering "build it and he will come" to him.  The film continues with the arrival of the ghost of "Shoeless" Joe Jackson (Ray Liotta) , a disgraced Chicago White Sox player who, along with seven other White Sox players, was involved in the 'throwing' (deliberately losing) of the 1919 World Series. The film pans out when Jackson brings along the spirits of the other seven disgraced players plus a rookie player called Doc Archie 'Moonlight' Graham (played by Burt Lancaster as the older figure) after Costner's character, Ray Kinsella, talks Terence Mann (James Earl Jones) into a cross-USA road trip in an old VW Kombi...

An online petition has been raised by Talia Wilson , Hospitality Officer at Cray Wanderers FC, for the purpose of bringing a much better public transport system for supporters to attend Flamingo Park in Chislehurst, the club's permanent new home. But, it is not just the Wands' men's team who play there. The club has numerous junior teams, consisting of both boys and girls, as well as a senior ladies' team. In addition to all those teams, Flamingo Park is also a hub for community groups and families to use the excellent facilities. It is an oasis, if you like, in a desert of busy roads and far away bus stops and train stations. Yet, how can supporters and users of the facilities on offer get to the place if they have no transport of their own, when the nearest bus stop is 20 or 30 minutes away from the ground and the nearest railway station is even further away? And those anomalies don't even take into account the elderly supporters of our football club, nor of disab...

Based on the overall stats for this blog site since I started it a few months ago, it would appear that many visitors do not go beyond the front page. I don't mean that they suddenly surf away as soon as they land on coyw.co.uk , far from it, because the stats clearly show that visitors stay around long enough to read the articles (or posts, if you prefer) that I have posted. And, new visitors arrive all the time, from around the world. That's very encouraging news and it is positive to know that visitors enjoy reading my mixed blend of topics that range from Cray Wanderers FC to Football In General and Daily Life to Everything Else. Basically, if there's anything to write about, the chances are I'll end up researching and scribbling away. I often add something new to the site, perhaps not every day but, whenever my carer duties allow. But, the front page of listed articles on this site is not the only page to explore. I have recently added a new section entitled 'F...

My wife is sometimes a little bit fascinated by the fact that when an old musical film is shown on one of the cable TV channels, or questions about musical films crop up on TV quiz shows, just how much I know about them. Sometimes I even surprise myself with such knowledge. Many of you reading this posting will either be too young or even maybe your parents were not even born when a radio show called 'Movie-Go-Round' aired on the BBC. I don't mean that unkindly, because I am talking about the early 1960s, although that's when I started listening to it. Not out of choice, mind. Back in the 1960s, we listened to the radio a lot and, I mean a lot . Daytime TV was a long way off from blighting our lives and my parents, like most parents of the time, spent most of each day in the kitchen. Which meant the radio was on all the time. 'Movie-Go-Round' had two or three presenters in its time and ran from 1956 to 1969. Back in those days, before the restructure of BBC Radi...

Every year, around November or December time, I always look out for a sealed envelope dropping onto our front door mat from the Cabinet Office. Known as a 'sounding letter', the contents of that sealed envelope contain a notification of an award or title in the New Year's Honours List, and the recipient's agreement to accept the honour that is to be bestowed upon him or her. Either acceptance or rejection carries with it the proviso that the details of the list must remain confidential and not revealed until after the official announcement around the end of December. A sort of 'Official Secrets Act' order. Considering why some people have been awarded a knighthood, damehood, CBE, OBE or an MBE over the years, I like to think that I have done more than enough in my seven decades of life on this planet to equal or better some of the awarded efforts of those lucky enough to have been picked, proposed and seconded in the first place. Not everyone, mind, just a few. ...

It is with deep sadness that I have to report the passing of my old friend Doug Alexander. I received the sad news via email on Christmas Eve from Doug's grandson, James. I first met Doug way back in the summer of 1972 when Cray were still playing at Grassmeade. Doug was a member of the 279 Chislehurst football club that was swallowed up by a merger with Cray Wanderers. He arrived on the scene just as the Wands were trying to rebuild the team after the mass walkout of the club's previous players and manager earlier in 1972. John Biddle became manager and Doug became a voluntary behind-the-scenes helper. I last met and spoke with Doug and his daughter Jane at the Aveley game in 2009, when Cray had just been promoted to the Isthmian League Premier Division for the first time. We chatted about old times of the 1970s at Oxford Road. Among other things, Doug used to drive Cray's old Bedford coach to away games and, he was a barman in the clubhouse at Grassmeade while we were sti...

I have just arrived back indoors having been out to post a couple of Christmas cards into neighbours' houses. It took me less than 5 minutes. This year, I only had to deliver two and, I know they will be reciprocated. Last year, I delivered four. Previous years, it was in double figures. So, what's changed? People have changed. And so has the economy. Cards - and especially postage - are no longer the inexpensive option they once were. Neighbours move away and others pass away. That's called 'life', paradoxically. And, of course, we now have smartphones and other gadgets to contact each other by. Every second of every hour of every day of every week of the year. Sending Christmas cards is a dying pastime. Even our posted Christmas cards have dwindled over the years. Six out this year and six in. Only a couple of years ago it was double that. One of our neighbours decided that they are no longer going to send Christmas cards to anybody; at least they made their inten...

Back in 2012, I was sent the following article by long-time Wands supporter, Ian Fordyce. Ian had been a supporter since the mid-1950s and had a wealth of knowledge about our club stored in his head. He was always a very useful source of information to 'tap' about Cray Wanderers and, at the time that I received Ian's email containing this article, I had not long set up the dedicated Cray Wanderers History website.  I agreed with Ian to publish this article on the History site but, after I closed that site, I thought this very interesting piece of work had been lost forever. But then I decided to interrogate my email account and successfully found the message where this article was attached. Sadly, Ian has since passed away after providing the following account, but I believe that his work should live on - especially as it is relevant to the history of Cray Wanderers Football Club. I have supported the Wands since 1955 and I started researching the club history in 1958.  By ...

I have now started to populate the 'From the Archives' page with an ongoing list of my written articles that appeared in Cray Wanderers' matchday programmes between 2010 and 2025. Please be advised that this is quite a slow process, as I have to retype each article before uploading it to this site and there's a fair few of them... Further details about the articles can be found by clicking on the new 'From the Archives' link in the main menu (above).

On Thursday, 11 December 2025, I received an email from Pete Goringe informing me that sadly John Biddle had passed away the previous day. As I was not invited this time by Cray Wanderers to write a tribute in their matchday programme, I have decided to pay my respects to John on this site instead. I first met John Biddle back in 1972. He was about to take over the reins as manager of Cray Wanderers at Grassmeade. He seemed quite an affable kind of bloke and I quickly found out that he would happily do a favour for someone if called upon to do so. John had come from a club called 279 Chislehurst and brought with him the full playing staff of his former team. Bidds didn't seem to mind what duties he undertook while the club was still playing games at Grassmeade. Quite often he could be found serving behind the bar in the old clubhouse. By the time I was voted onto the Cray Wanderers committee, our club had moved to Oxford Road. I dare say that many managers in the same or similar si...

Have you sometimes got to the point where, quite unexpectedly, the external hard drive you bought to give your computer more storage space decides to give up the ghost? What do you do about it? Do you put the drive at the back of a cupboard, drawer or even the wardrobe? Or do you throw it out or take it to the municipal tip? I really hope for your sake that you keep those drives and don't bin the non-workers. Why do I say that? Well, believe it or not, around 99 times out of 100 it is not the drive that's failed but the casing it comes in. Or, rather, the electronics within the casing. If, when you plug the external drive into your computer via the USB port, it does nothing onscreen but the drive's pilot or progress light comes on (generally a red or a blue light) and you hear a purring sound of the drive from within, it's not the hard drive that's failed but most probably the SATA to USB component that is attached to the casing. All your valuable data is probably ...